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And once again, the self-contradiction is mind-boggling … sports are somehow, at the same time, “not the most important thing in life” (at least for the girls and women whose crushed dreams must always, ALWAYS come second to the demands and ambitions of male-bodied people) AND so important to trans identifying people that they will surely kill themselves if not allowed not only to participate in sports (as they are already and have always been permitted to do, in their own biological category) but to do so in a category in which they have unfair and immutable physical advantages.

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Brava!

What she was really saying:

"I’m sorry, your [girl's] high school volleyball team just isn’t that important. It’s not more important than any one [boy getting what he wants]."

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More like "Women's rights? Who cares?" "Those hysterical females need to get a grip!"

And people really need to STOP citing suicide as the reason we need to cater to trans. It's irresponsible to oversimplify it. I think it's interesting that suicide statistics for males are often cited when women are trying to discuss their sex-based oppression in order to derail the discussion and remind women of their place.

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Arrgh, YES. As always, Eliza Mondegreen says, powerfully and succinctly, what I couldn't calm my own incoherent rage enough to articulate. THANK YOU.

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As one comment on Twitter said yesterday regarding small numbers of men in women's sport - if you have a jug of fresh water and put in a teaspoon of sewage, you don't have a jug of fresh water with a bit of sewage in it, you have a jug of sewage. (I can't remember who it was to attribute properly, sorry).

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Jun 22, 2022·edited Jun 22, 2022

Outstanding takedown of Rapinoe, the quintessential example of an MRA/TRA handmaiden who's throwing her sisters under the women's sports bus that she's happily driving over the cliff. The incredible arrogance of so many celebrity women who remain unaffected by and oblivious to the wholesale destruction of women's hard-won rights is a sight to behold. I'm beginning to feel as though it's mostly women orchestrating our own erasure. Our female indoctrination to be kind is being weaponized against us. Our daughters and granddaughters will curse our name when they see what we had and gave it all up to please men.

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Trans kids are not the only ones who commit suicide. Suicide is something like the third leading cause of death for teens, but it can’t all be attributed to gender dysphoria. If kids committing suicide is such an important topic, let’s bring up that trans kids make up a sliver of the population. What about the young trans people who commit suicide because of regret after transitioning? Why isn’t there a movement to rectify the social pressures that lead so many young women and men to kill themselves, all of them?

Schools are increasingly prison like and authoritarian, which probably leads to bullying, which is often cited as a reason for these school shooting massacres. Should not all bullies be targeted, instead of elevating one group above another? Girls undergo tons of bullying, from both girls and boys, including sexual harassment, yet these topics don’t get hashtags and PR campaigns from massive corporations.

FINA made a good compromise with the open league. The fact that it is being challenged as restricting trans rights is difficult to understand, because they can compete, just not only against women.

Without title IX and the women who struggled for it, there would not be women’s sports that are as extensive and popular as they are today, so it feels more like appropriation than inclusion. If it’s too dangerous for post or prehormone trans women to be included with biological men, in schools, bathrooms and prisons, why is the violent behavior of men not being highlighted as something that needs changing, instead of the definition of a woman?

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Brilliant again Eliza Mondegreen- I love the google translates bit about she has endorsements to keep - just about says it all about how the present climate decides what we are and are not allowed to say; if we want to keep our jobs, sponsorships, and popularity.

I don't watch much news but saw a clip of Emily Campbell being interviewed after winning a SILVER Olympic medal in Tokyo, the FIRST ever weightlifting medal for the UK. The hacks didn't want to talk about her training and amazing achievement, all they wanted to ask her was about how she felt about a trans athlete, (who in this instance failed to place, though the future of women's weightlifting is looking distinctly precarious), being allowed to compete. She had obviously been told her answer must follow the party line or she'd loose her sponsors and place on the team. She answered like a zombie. I felt really sorry for her, all the years of dreaming of that moment. She will go on to do many things I'm sure but to her, at that time, weight lifting was her life.

Women's lives are definitely at risk.

Jo

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"Show me the evidence that trans women are taking everyone’s scholarships, are dominating in every sport, are winning every title. I’m sorry, it’s just not happening."

But it will if nothing is done about it NOW. Just look at the way World Athletics has NOT got to grips with Variations of Sex Development and how they have allowed males recorded as females at birth, socialised as girls but then go through a form of male puberty to participate in women's athletics. The result is the complete domination in the 2016 women's 800m Olympic final in Brazil with males taking all medals and the top female coming fourth.

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Great article Eliza.

Rapinoe will only start to 'care' when her sponsorship earning start to be commandeered by bigger stronger trans identified males. Perhaps even taking her place in the US international team.

That is her bottom line. Needs to wake up.

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Even if it's true (and if so, I doubt it'll stay that way for long) that only a handful of women are being unfairly shut out of competition by trans-identified male athletes, Rapinoe certainly seemed to think we should all care about the fair treatment of a mere handful of women when the issue was pay disparity between men's and women's elite soccer teams. She has some nerve making that argument.

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Once again, great article Eliza, thank you

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Someone's really on the ball here. Hint: it's not Rapinoe

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Frankly, I am so disgusted by Rapinoe's comments! Another myth busted: alas, she is not the person I thought she was :-(

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Thank you. I’m so glad I found your Substack.

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I’ll be brief. Great piece, as always. I’ll be sharing this one.

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