"I'm not sure about my gender. What is this called?"
Since I haven't found the time to write the definitive rundown on the gender cult, let's just start digging...
A young woman asks Reddit: "I'm not sure about my gender. What is this called?"
Oh, oh, I recognize this: it's called being at an early stage of indoctrination into a body-modification cult!
This is how cultic groups operate. First, the cult dismantles everything you think you know about yourself, including the absolute basics: am I a man or a woman? Do I know myself or have I spent a lifetime in denial? Can I trust my sense of self? Should I listen to my inner voice or drown it out?
Walk into a Scientology storefront and you’ll be given a ‘capacity analysis test’ that always returns negative results that read like a bill of indictment: you’re depressed, unstable, irresponsible, unappreciative… Scientologists reassure would-be recruits that they "wouldn't try to convince you” to join: “What L. Ron Hubbard said specifically is that what is true is only what's true for you—it's your reality that counts…” What Scientology can do is “help” you connect to that “reality,” if you’re brave enough to delve deeper. Most people just aren’t brave and open-minded enough to take that first step. Let’s call those close-minded people “wogs,” “ordinary, run-of-the-mill, garden-variety humanoid[s].”
Log on to social networks like Reddit and you’ll be bombarded with prompts to question your gender and encouragements to pour your inspecific grievances into the mold of a new trans identity. No one else can tell you who you are: trans is whatever trans means to you. But educating yourself about gender and connecting with other trans people online can help you tap into your inner reality. Just don’t listen to those questions and doubts: that’s your internalized transphobia talking. Most people just aren’t brave and open-minded and—let’s be honest—interesting enough to take that first step and explore their gender. Let’s call those close-minded people “cis.”
I remember, many decades ago, walking down the Tottenham Court Road in London (UK) & being collared by a Scientologist outside a shop they'd rented: to haul in people off the street to complete a questionnaire.
I was already a sceptic about Scientology but curious about the questionnaire. So it was no surprise to find it was designed to make any reasonably well-functioning human being appear completely inadequate, sorely in need of the "help" of Scientology. A dishonestly loaded recruiting device, designed to elicit negative responses.
And it's therefore little surprise -- though just as disgusting -- that the gender cult uses the same recruiting techniques. Less than perfectly, 100 percent happy and successful? Then you must be trans: sorely in need of our medical treatment.
Brainwashing and hucksterism of all kinds use these manipulative techniques: also built into the more innocuous advertising acronym AIDA: Attention, Information, Desire, Attraction.
"I'm not sure about my gender. What is this called?"
This is essentially "I'm lost, can you help me find my way?"
Feeling lost is natural as is seeking advice but this is quickly exploited by people whose goals are manipulation and control. I feel like we need to finely tune our bullshit meters to be able to recognize this in others. To my mind, some of the surest indicators of a bullshit artist/manipulator are their tendencies to make definitive statements, to shame you either subtly or overtly when you get "off track", and an inability to admit fallibility.